To The Single Girl Who Is Struggling

I know being single can feel very overwhelming. Maybe you just got out of a long-term relationship, or maybe you’ve been single for a long time. Whatever the case may be, there can be some positives about being single. This is To The Single Girl Who Is Struggling.

Enjoy it

You probably aren’t going to be single forever. And whenever that time comes, you are probably going to miss some aspects of your single life. Enjoy your independence while you can, because being single isn’t the end of the world. It’s normal for people to enjoy being single. 

Don’t try to force a relationship

I know it’s hard to not force a relationship, especially if you’ve been single for a long time. But if it’s causing a lot more work and you find yourself trying to force a relationship, it’s probably not the right relationship for you. 

Find a hobby

When you’re in your single phase, try to step out of the box and find new hobbies. This is the perfect opportunity to make new friends and try new experiences. Who knows, this may be how you meet your future husband (but again, don’t force it). 

Don’t settle for less

If you’ve had heartbreaks in your past, I’m sure you know what you want/need in a relationship. This is the perfect time for you to make a list of non-negotiables you want in a future partner. Maybe your last relationship gave you clarity on things you know you don’t want in a partner. Use this time to identify what you want your ‘perfect’ person to look like. 

Prioritize your future and goals 

Being single gives you a great opportunity to work on projects at work or focus on your overall future. Maybe you want to be more financially independent, or maybe you are trying for a promotion at work. Focus on your goals and what you want for your future. That way, when the right man comes around, there’s time for more fun and focus on the relationship. And trust me, men love a successful and motivated woman. 

The universe might have a plan for you

Trust that the universe might have a plan for you. I am a huge believer that everything happens for a reason. Whether that be the universe, or whatever religion you believe in, trust that there is a plan for you.

Being single may feel very overwhelming. But I can promise you that you will miss this time in your life. Enjoy these single moments and trust what your future has in store for you. To The Single Girl Who Is Struggling, I promise it will not always be this way.

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